DP has recently proposed and I accepted but am now having doubts if I can actually go through with it all.
I have 4 DDs and he has 3 DDs. The younger ones get on fine but the teenagers (4) are not so easy.
Also his ex wife is an alcoholic and has hit, strangled and been very abusive to his older children and the police and social services have become involved. This also means that half the week his DDs live with him.
Would I be sensible to walk away from all the drama now? I could cope with 7 children every other weekend but I think it is probably a matter of time before the authorities decide that they are better off not living with their mother at all.
Could this ever work? I'm thinking not.
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ShyCharles · 07/03/2016 17:34
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