If I am, do tell me - I'm so far out of my comfort zone I've no idea what's normal and what isn't!
DP has unexpectedly been away with work the last couple of nights which means he missed his night with his DC yesterday. He tells me today that, because of that, he'll (we'll...!) be having them tonight as well as tomorrow (we have them every Friday night) which means him going straight from work to take them to their various sporting clubs and be back home around 830-9pm.
I'm a little peeved on a number of fronts.
Firstly, I'd like to think he would discuss it with me rather than just tell me. We have only been living together a short while, though.
Secondly, he's been away from me all week and we'll have the children tomorrow, would it be so unreasonable to have tonight just us? I completely understand that he wants to see his children asap (in reality I don't understand as I don't have any myself, but I'm trying to understand) and he'd be a pretty rubbish person if he wasn't bothered that he missed seeing them yesterday but...well...I'm just feeling a little put out that I'm sat on my own again.
Thirdly, I've got to be on the road by 6am tomorrow so I need a relaxed evening and an early night. I'm likely to be going to bed around the same time as the DC (I know, I'm VERY cool) which is never a relaxing situation and often involves raised voices for a lot longer than necessary. Hardly ideal 5am alarm preparation.
DP doesn't see my issues and thinks I'm being difficult. Am I?
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Andsoitbegins88 · 14/01/2016 19:32
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