Hi all
iam finding it tough not to say anything !!
I met my bf ova a year ago after splitting up with my husband of 7 years
We were both honest from the start I told him id been married and he said he had a kid I met his child after a month of us dating and we hit it straight of I love them both so much
My issue is that we are goin for full custody of the child and have temp custody until court the mother is suppose to see the child once a week and so far she has never turned up on time and has always dropped the child back early she has missed days and used awful excuses once even that she forgot !!!! We are always left to pick up the peices espech me as the child seems to find it easier to talk to me about the mum and the upset she is causing. Its getting awful to the point that she tells the child she will be down and doeset turn up so we phone to ask where she is and she gives some lame excuse as to why she hasnt phoned and cant come down and we are left to explain to the child and make excuses for her to the child as to why she isnt here again, it breaks my heart everytime I see the dissapointment on the childs face and tears in the eyes its making my bf very angry as its hurting his child and he sees my heartbreaking to.
How do I cope with this and stop myself from going mad at the mum
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Bumble2508 · 22/11/2015 20:32
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