DP has had a rocky relationship with his son 12 for years and often goes through fazes of is son not wanting to see him. We are currently going through one of these fazes and DP has not seen him for 9 months, he calls, texts and occasionally pops to EXW house to see his son but his son still refuses to ever spend any time with him.
Over the years it has become a bit of a game to his DS, he will refuse to see him for long periods of time, refuses to speak to him on phone and as soon as something fun cones up like a holiday or a trip to see family for weekend (live far away) he will come along with a smirk on his face behave awful with the attitude of screw you I can do what I like and you can't tell me off or do anything because I won't see you again, then once home he goes back to refusing to see his dad.
So this has been happening for years and the last 9 months dp has desperately been trying to see his son snd sort these issues, he has sat his son down and told him he loves him, wants to see him regularly but that if it continues then he will not be taking him away on a summer holiday etc and he can't expect to ignore his dad all year and then just go away, when he said this his son just smirked and laughed in his face.
So we are coming up to a summer brake in a few weeks and dp is now unsure what to do, should he just invite his son along or should he stick to what he actually said and not take him on the hope it will actually make him realise?
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Babyzoola · 31/07/2015 10:29
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