So a while back my dp had a proper ding song with his ex and as always 'she's not their mum' came up. Me and dp have talk at length about this and each time his response is - don't speak to kids be polite and just do your own thing- so I do - I don't watch the kids . Pretty much stop doing so much. I have point blank refused to do pick ups unless it suits me. After ex having g her rants about me she then says 'could always not just pick kids up/ drop kids off'
I'm not being funny but one minute I'm not good enough to look after her kids but when she needs me to do stuff she calls me childish and immature for refusing .(and yes I am fully aware its slightly immature)
but every time after a few weeks dp forgets our chat. And now here I am watching dsd while he and dss take the dog out.
its not that I dont like the kids. Its just that I feel I'm being taken for granted. He never asked me to watch dsd and just assumed I would. It pisses me off. I'm not a bloody live in babysitter.
I'm just ranting but I'm pissed off.
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