I'm completely new to this step parenting Milarki. Before we moved in together I felt I had a good bond with my partners son, & felt he had a good bond with my 2 boys as well. But it's been way harder than I thought!! He says some really hurtful things to me, I understand some of the things he says about my boys like 'he's naughty' etc cause 9/10 times its true, but in a few occasions he's said 'I don't even like u, don't even look at me' & 'me & dad are moving out cause I don't want to live here' my partner says he doesn't mean it but it doesn't make it hurt any less! I try my best to make an effort but it's not very often we get any free time to bond, my pair are usually there or he is off with his dad on days out to see family etc & at nights I always ask if he wants good night cuddles etc & always speak to him the same as my own boys 'nanight handsome boys, hope u all sleep well, see u in the morning' etc etc but he either ignores it or says he doesn't want me he wants his dad (which is understandable but feels like he doesn't even want me trying to include him)
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