Does anyone else have issues with DH who has been - for the majority - a NRP to DSC to then becoming a father to your DC together?
I don't think I explained that very well.
We have DSD 16 who lives with her DM (DH and her split when DSD was 3) and DD1 3 and DD2 1.
Before we had DDs, DH was very much used to being a Disney dad. He was always the 'fun' parent who never had to be involved in the 'mundane' daily life of raising a child such as nagging to do homework / tidy room / eat veg etc.
Now we have DC I think he is struggling with being more than a fun parent and does not really get involved to the level I would expect.
For instance I always organise activities, buy and choose presents, do washing, arrange appointments, plan meals for the girls.
DH also has a reluctance to do things with the children he does not enjoy, for example take DD1 to Sunday School tomorrow (he would not have to stay) or take DD2 to her weekly music class.
He admits he is being selfish, but does not think it is an issue.
I don't really know what I'm looking for by starting this thread. Other people's experience / words of wisdom I guess.
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Issues with DH becoming a resident parent to DC after being a lifelong Disney Dad to DSC
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Cliffdiver · 23/05/2015 11:11
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