So last night my 16 yo step daughter wants to email dad some photos of what he told me was photos of her work experience which is great , I check our emails this morning and find the photos are of her mum WTF and it's not the first time it's happened , I know kids want the whole mummy and daddy thing to work but unfortunately her mum is a nasty spiteful cow , nothing in our life is kept private from there mum , his daughter takes photos of him our house and belongings and sends them to her , the older she gets the worse it gets , I really feel like she is actively trying to get them back together and she should be respecting our privacy and relationship more , it's upsetting to feel like that , I'm starting to get defensive about our privacy and she is sucking the nice right out of me , I'm really not liking her much anymore because of it all . If my kids were sending photos of there father to me I would politley let them know that it's not really acceptable and how it would make my partner feel , unfortunately I can't see my partner saying this to her as he might upset her . It's really making me feel like crap , should I suck it up or let my feelings be known to him ( which will cause an argument )
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