So background: I have 2 dc dd8 and ds5 and one dss aged 8. Me and dp haved lived together a year and a half and were together two years before that. We have dss two nights a week and every other weekend (but only until Sunday morning as Sunday is 'family time' so his mum insists that she has him)
I do love dss but it can be a bit of a battle sometimes. The boundaries at our house are different to those at his mum's and his mum tends to make excuses for him so he can come across as a bit entitled and he thinks he knows it all. He has been prone to a bit of answering back recently (as has my dd but she seems to be able to judge better when to stop)
Normally on Sunday morning we have pancakes for breakfast. We call the kids to the table to wait and dss grabs hold of the golden syrup and keeps it in his place. I explain to dss that it is rude to grab things and he can put it back in the middle and as a consequence he will have it last. This is exactly the same as I would do with my dc.
Then, I said to dp not to watch his sugar on his pancakes (diabetic) and dss says that it is his job, not mine to look out for his dad.
Then the icing on the cake, ds had a small accident last night and we heard dss saying to him that it was a 'wet dream' and not to worry about it. The minute we heard this dp calls him down and speaks to him about it and dss acts the know it all not listening to what his dad was saying, so I lost my temper with him.
Despite me apologising for losing my temper, dss was rude to me on saying goodbye (I gave him a hug and then he 'wiped' himself on his dad.
Then his mum phones dp an hour later complaining about the fact dss is upset about the golden syrup thing as she doesn't see he did anything wrong.
So off to change into my black dress and purple cape and gaze into my magic mirror.
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MsColouring · 26/04/2015 14:39
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