I have 70 minutes to go before I can deliver the dsc home. They have been with us for a week. Dh did half I have been on duty since Wednesday.. They have had days out in London, swimming, dry skiing , bowling and ice skating. All 4 are teenagers and all four do nothing but bash seven bells out of each other unless they are being 'amused' none of them can amuse themselves even for 5 minutes without hitting/pinching/punching each other... I am on my knees and exhausted. They have always been like this, I just hoped that they would grow out of it but in 8 yrs it's only got worse.! One of the dsc seems to actually HATE two of his siblings. This is not helped by having 3 teenage DCs myself who have NEVER laid a finger on each other (which I know is unusual & I am really lucky) but makes this nonsense so much harder to cope with as I am out of my depth. Any suggestions ? It can just about bear it for weekend contact but there behaviour like this over a week (and God preserve me two straight weeks in the summer followed by another week late summer, makes me want to leave the country.... They are a bit old for the naughty step ! Any suggestions welcome. Dh just shouts at them to behave when he's here. I have tried to talk calmly to them individually and ask why they do it. The answer seems to be that they have short tempers and feel justified in physical violence to one another as the victim 'deserves' it. .. Another ten minutes wasted on MN, now only 59 minutes to go before a we can leave and 2 hrs closer to a calm home and a LARGE VODKA TONIC .
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