So, as the title suggests, my step daughter is coming to live with us, we collect her on Saturday.
To cut a very long story short.....my partner (soon to be husband) and i have been together for 4 years, he has a daughter aged 10 with his ex....she has never lived with us but we have maintained a good relationship with her throughout these last four years and have had regular access.
The mother has recently been found to be an alcoholic and almost died last week due to liver and kidney failure (we seriously did not know any of this was going on). Her recovery is going to be very long and we have taken the tough decision to remove her from her mothers care for her own safety for the foreseeable future, the mother is not fighting us on this and the child is aware that she will be coming to live with us.
Apart from the massive change this is going to bring to our lifestyle i am concerned about the impact this is all having on the child. We have this morning found out that she believes that her mothers actions are due to her being stressed about caring for her and so feels this has all been her fault, which clearly it is not.
I wonder if anyone has any ideas as to how we can repair this partially broken child, i want to do only what is best for her....
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Gingergoddess · 13/04/2015 10:24
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