I'm not sure if I'm BU about this or if anyone can relate.
Basically my BF never stops boasting about how great his DC is (he only has one). They are so talented, so clever, so well behaved, you'd think they were the perfect child from BF's description. He doesn't just tell me about his child's achievements, he will drone on until he senses I have switched off.
Now I do like his child, so that isn't the issue. It's possibly that he's been slightly critical of my DCs in the past (not in front of them though) and so I rightly or wrongly, take his boasting as a stealth criticism and comparison of my DC. It's also possible that I think he's slightly blinkered.
I get that he's proud, and I want to be pleased as much as him. Am I really awful for not sharing in his pride and joy? To give a bigger picture, I'm actually not a fan of this trait in anyone and find it equally annoying when friends and acquaintances harp on about their special little snowflakes. Perhaps it's just a clash of parenting styles as whilst I'm inwardly proud of my own DC's achievements, and let them know frequently, I'm not naive enough to think anyone gives a shit but me and possibly their extended family.
I'm trying to work out why this annoys me as much as it does and hopefully change so I can be supportive. Has anyone got any advice?
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ModestyMostly · 26/03/2015 10:56
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