Hi my dss is 15 and lives with his mum and step dad it is a chaotic house numerous animals and mess everywhere My dh pays £450 per month in maintenance however since Christmas we have also bought new bedroom furniture a winter coat football boots and several items of clothing .Today she handed us his school shoes ( which we had bought )in September and said he needs new ones ..excuse for not buying them was she doesn't have time !! ..neither of them work .Dss has been buying his own food from the £50 allowance we give him each month because if he fancies a MacDonald s etc they won.t pay for it ..he is fed up of them arguing mainly over money and has been told that there income is £1500 per month but bare minimum they spend is £1800 Dh doesn't / won't say anything to her and I just feel so desperately sorry for dss .Is there anything we can do ?
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