If your DH has an acrimonious / non-existent relationship with his ex and pays through the CSA how is he planning to approach the new system where parents are expected to try to come to a private arrangement?
DH is thinking of writing to ex and suggesting that we will pay the CMO set amount plus the equivalent fee they would charge direct to ex, we would pay until each child turns 20 regardless of whether they are in education or not (provided they still live there). We are also setting money aside to pay for driving lessons and give generous cash gifts.
It's a better deal for ex than if CM options were to collect the fees under their system, but I still feel nervous that things will kick off when the time comes (we could get notification of the changeover anytime between now and 2017).
Is anyone else wondering how it will pan out?
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If your DH currently pays through the CSA how will you approach the changes with CMOptions?
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VadaSultanfuss · 23/01/2015 23:26
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