Hi everyone, I'm new here. I'd just like some advice from any other step parents out there!
I've been with my wife for 5 years (married for 3). My Stepson was 3 when I first met him, and at the time his Father was useless/absent. I formed a really good bond with him and became sort of the father figure. 2 years ago I had a son and all is well between them.
However, the last 4 or 5 months (stepson is now 8) he has been getting stroppy whenever he's told to go to bed. He'll initially just say no, then complains about not being tired, and when I have explained that it's the same time every night, no exceptions, he gets worse. It reached a new peak last night when he lost his temper and started to throw things about.
Now, I know this is normal behaviour for lots of kids, but my problem is how he's punished (or not). My wife tells him off and explains why it's not acceptable, but the next morning he's on his iPad and I suspect has no remorse or remembrance of his behaviour.
My way would be to ban him from Ipad (for example) for a day or two - does anyone think this is excessive? The further complication is that if I discuss it with my wife, she is often defensive/protective and thinks that punishments don't work.
Thanks all
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Behavioural problems with stepson & punishment
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Curtains81 · 12/11/2014 11:57
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