Could do with some opinions please. DH thinks that our home is also the home of his 2 non resident kids. Has said to his son aged 18 that if he wants to move in feel feel free. The son said what about Lasvegas I don't think she would like it, so now DH thinks I am unwelcoming.
DH works away about 70% of the time, so he is effect inviting his son to move in but not having to share a home with them often.
We jointly own the house and jointly pay the mortgage. His kids live far away and visit 5 times a year for a week- 2 weeks at a time.
We don't have a guest room, when they visit DD gives up her room and sleeps in with me.
We have been together for years and we have never had a conversation about his kids moving in. Except the hypothetical they would move in if f their mum and step dad died.
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Lasvegas · 25/09/2014 12:14
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