Background- Dss 20 lives here full time but keeps himself to himself, does not acknowledge me in any way never has, never been able to give dh a reason for his behaviour.
We have been away for two weeks and he has been home. Before we left i made dh tell him no parties or sleepovers. only yesterday dh spoke to him and he promised that he'd been here alone.
Found out in a text from my cleaner that his girlfriend who we have never met has been living in our home, often being left on her own whilst he works. They lived like animals and if it wasn't for our cleaner coming in I can imagine how we would have found the place.
To say I'm livid is an understatement- but not as livid as i am with dh, who is trying to minimise the whole thing, saying I'm making a fuss out of nothing and all 'kids' are wrong sometimes.
Dh thinks it has nothing to do with me but I told him it's my home too with my possessions some of which are very personal. I have told him I want to be present when he speaks to ss as I have no doubt he otherwise wouldn't bother.
Am I over reacting??
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Just back from holiday- how angry should I be?
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MarmiteMania · 26/08/2014 20:03
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