I'm not technically a sm as I don't live with my partner and right now probably never will. His son is 8, rules the roost when he is at his Dad's house, has no manners, is spitefull to my daughter and generally causes an atmosphere when he's around as Disneyland Dad never disciplines him.
His behaviour rubs off my 7 year old so I try to point out to him and his Dad when unacceptable behaviour happens but it just makes me feel like a referee and a telltale.
How can I possibly disengage without my daughter thinking this behaviour is ok? She already gets carried away and copies him, which I try to nip in the bud, but it's not fair one kid sitting nicely while out for a meal when the other is bouncing off the walls and refusing to eat etc
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Neechy · 25/08/2014 17:00
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