Hi all,
Not sure if this is the right section or not. We have dss (he is 9) full time and he doesn't see his real mum. Like every other child he stays over at his Nan's of a weekend maybe 3 times a month to give us a break and him a break (we are currently going through the motions of getting an ADHD diagnosis) however, the last 6 months or so every time he comes back from there he is very spiteful and quite rude to everyone. Constantly arguing back, silly answers, doing anything he can for attention. After a chat he says he's doing these naughty things so he can try and make us make him go and live with his nan!
Whilst I know Nan's house for most kids is a treat and they eat drink do whatever they want and at home we have boundaries, rules etc but his behaviour for this meaning is so frustrating and upsetting for me and his dad..... Just don't know what to do :( maybe it's the pressure of amusing 3 boys in the holidays as well as working 3 nights a week! Rant over :)
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sg2015 · 15/08/2014 09:06
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