I ask because dh dd has outside interests which involve some weekends as well as after school.
We have dsd 50/50 recently her mum seems to not want to be carting her dd to events so dh has been doing it. Great I think a parent should be there to support her shame it's always dh though.
I only just found out about the next event as I overheard his ex on his phone when she called.
He told me from now on if the weekends dsd needed to he taken somewhere fell on the exp weekend she would have to do her bit and support dsd. Though when I asked about the next event he couldn't tell me exact dates then changed months! I know he's bloody lying to me because he's going back on what he originally said. I don't care if he takes her to every event just don't keep it from me it's not like I won't find out!
So it made me wonder, how much information should a step parent be privy to? Conversations between ex regarding their child, events, changes in access dates? All of these things have an effect on us too.
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TinselTaTas · 17/12/2013 11:32
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