Hi,
I was wondering what you all thought. My, my boyfriend and our five children live together - 100% of the time. He has a DS(6) and a DD(8). I have, DS(8), DD(6) and DS(5). In my view we just don't work as a family at the moment - there are a lot of issues and frustrations, which we try to tackle, but then there is a whole other set of difficulties. It's becoming hard and despite the best of intentions from us all it's simply a case that we're not mummy, daddy and five kids. The reality is far different.
So my question is.... Is it possible to exist together and still remain as two separate families? Some time together, some apart, one set of rules for mine and one for his. Like an extended holiday visit. Don't get me wrong we do ok as it is, but we would never have chosen to have children together. He is a little too detached for my liking, lets everything go over is head etc. and I want to stop how his kids are (at times) frustrating me and leaving me resentful.
We don't want to split up and we are both very fond of each others children. I'm just looking for thoughts, experiences etc.
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moody7557 · 03/12/2013 11:47
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