Hi All,
I am at a bit of a loss at the moment, and feeling really down and unsure what to do.
In a nutshell, my boyfriend who I live with (for 18 months) has just got access back to his son as his ex prevented him from seeing him due to him meeting someone (me) and moving on. He now stays over at our home every other weekend and a day through the week.
I'm not sure how to feel, as I've always been super supportive etc, but i feel like a spare part when my boyfriends son is at our home. I offer to help with things but often find myself sat alone on the sidelines as i don't feel very involved with things their doing. He'll give him to me to hold, for a moment, then take him off me. I try play with him but he'll come and pick him up and take him to do something else.
I don't want to say anything as he has fought long and hard to get his son back so don't want to give him any stress.
Is it normal to feel this way? Maybe me just being hormonal and looking into things too much, but I had to let it out somewhere! (I can't hide in my car for a sob for another night!)
Thanks for reading :-) anna x
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PinkNikeShoes · 09/11/2013 19:45
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