I'm only very early on but I've been wondering about this since before I got pregnant. My partner's relationship with his ex has been quite fraught and they are still in mediation for their divorce, mostly finances as the access has been loosley agreed. He's been paying £500 in maintenance for 18 months but soon we won't be able to afford that and she's going to need to know about the baby.
He's probably going to have to tell her within the next month in the final mediation meeting but we're worried that she will then tell SD and we would rather it came from us.
So, should we tell SD soon, when she's with us and then let ex know over the phone before SD goes home? Is that a really bad way to handle it?
Anyone else in the same boat?
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When to tell 5yo SD (and her Mum) that we're having a baby?
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Angelina77 · 05/11/2013 12:41
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