My Dss has a five month old baby with a woman who is now his ex , she also has a dd from previous relationship.
His ex decided 2 month ago that Dss was no longer allowed to visit the children , and that he was no longer a part of their lives .
Out of the blue last week ex contacted Dss to see if he wanted to go visit the children which he did . He visited them on Saturday where after an hour of her demanding money from him and been verbally abusive to him she asked him to leave.
Dss has been putting money aside for his son plus this woman never named Dss on birth certificate so he is now in the process of going through the courts for a parental responsibility order ( I think it's called ) .
Yesterday he received a text message of ex , of what her children would like for Christmas, this included £100 off Dss dad and myself aswell as clothes and toys for both her children.
We really don't know what to do , We don't want to give into this woman's demands , after all she has refused to let us see our grandson since he was 2 weeks old .We did intend to open a bank account for grandson and buy him some gifts that would stay at our house in the hope that one day we will be allowed to have him visit us , but I don't want to feel as though we are denying our grandson if we don't buy him something that she wants .
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AuntyVirus · 14/10/2013 03:07
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