Hi, this might drag on but i am really stuck.
Firstly I don't have children of my own. My mum was very quick to scream and shout and be pretty physical with me when i was a child and was terrified I would turn out the same type of mum and never, ever wanted to inflict that on anyone ever!
I knew my current partner before we dated and had met his oldest daughter before we started dating, I knew he had a younger daughter too but hadn't met her yet. I met her after we had been dating a month. She is very funny/strange with me, when Dad is around she is quite nice but when Dad isn't there I get told to go home and not visit and things. She is only 2 1/2 years old. Her terrible twos are in full flow, she has temper tantrums and uses it to get attention from her dad. I don't know anything about parenting and discipline but I seem to keep telling her no - you cant have that chocolate bar, no you cant have cake for breakfast.
I need to find a way to make our relationship more positive. It just seems to be me being permanently negative which I dont want. She is so cute and I love them all so much.
Can anyone please help?
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newbiestepper · 28/09/2013 14:04
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