I'll admit up front that I am shamelessly attempting to use this board's combined knowledge of step parenting for my own gain. There's nothing stealth or bashy here, I'm just hoping for some advice to make things run as smoothly as possible so am looking for 'the other side' as it were. I am the mother rather than step mother in this scenario.
I split with my ex over 9 years ago. He got married 8 years back so SM has been around for a long time and isn't a new development. My ex didn't really see the DC until a year ago so none of us actually know his wife, just that she exists iyswim? Contact is now increasing and may reach the stage of overnights and holidays at some point.
I think it would be helpful if I could establish some sort of relationship with the DC's SM to help everyone know where they stand if contact does get to the stage of them spending time together. So, I am asking you lot for do and do not lists, anecdata and handy hints of things your SDC'S mum did that helped or overstepped the mark in the hope that I can avoid any obvious mistakes and not start off badly.
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What would make communication with your SDC's Mum easier?
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DespicableWee · 24/09/2013 14:31
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