Hi can anyone help? I have married a great man who had two children to another relationship. Been married 5 years and together 6. I couldn't have my own children and initiallly thought this was the perfect ending as I got a ready made family, but I am screwing it up. My husband and I keep clashing about issues to do with values, parenting styles and he would say I have it in for the 15 year old daughter. She lives with her mom and step dad and visits us monthly. The 19 year old son is working abroad currently. Are their other people in similar situations ?