I have typed out a post for this board so many times in the past couple of weeks, but it always ends up long or ranty, or complicated.
24w pregnant, lovely 5yo DSD. A number of things/issues (you all know how it is, never bloody simple to put it lightly!) have just meant that right now I am seriously regretting not starting a family the old-fashioned way. For one, I'd bloody love to be coming first every so often as a first-time pregnant woman, not that I'm ever allowed to say that one out loud!
So to put it simply: somebody please tell me that having a baby as a step-mum can be lovely. Tell me it is worth it in the end. All the angst, insecurity and guilt, ex issues, and of course the constant overriding need to make sure DSC are never ever left out in any way - they are all insignificant in the long run aren't they?! Blended families aren't all bad? Please reassure me, I know I'm over-thinking everything with another 4 months still to go, but reading some of the threads on here has made me need some success stories to get me through this until December.
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Successful 'blended family' stories please
wickedwitchNE · 29/08/2013 20:56
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