Hi, I am long time lurker and found the situations on this thread familiar and comforting in a weird way (in a nice knowing I am not the only one way). I have a bizarre and unpleasant situation and I'm hoping someone might be able to suggest a course of action.
My partner has 2 children (girl aged 10, boy aged 7) - I don't have kids myself but I get on well with his. We normally have them every other weekend, although this can be withdrawn on a whim by their mother. We had them this weekend and still do as their mother, step father and half-sibling have all gone on holiday without letting us know in advance (found out last thing on Saturday night) leaving us to run around trying to sort out care. We both work and luckily have sorted out leave but it's the inconvenience and bare faced cheek of it - not to mention it was left for the children to tell us and she told them she needed a break from them which i think is such a hurtful thing to say.
There wouldn't have been an issue if we'd had some notice but this is just a joke. We only know vaguely where they have gone and have no contact details to get hold of them - partner normally only finds out if he's allowed them when he turns up at the door step as mum has changed number a while back. It's already been through court last year to get this contact in place but its not sticking and we can't afford to go back again. It's not an easy situation but we ignore most of the crap just for an easy life.
We feel like it needs reporting somehow as its not acceptable for anyone - the children seem ok but it must hurt. If anyone has any advice they can pass my way to how we can try and put a stop to this happening again, I'd be most appreciative.
Mum has form for being awkward like this in past, lots of examples of ridiculous situations we've been put in, but don't want to bore you all with them (be here all night).
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Iridescentgloworm85 · 27/08/2013 19:23
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