We were at a massive extended family do this weekend. Where basically we knew about five people there and all the rest were random family we'd never met before.
DSD was with us. She's a good kid, does well at school, etc. but her manners have been getting worse and worse recently. She back chats me and her dad. She never says please or thank you to anyone despite constant reminders from me and her father. If someone's speaking to her and she's not interested she'll either point blank ignore them or walk off halfway through. I find it really embarrassing and to be honest she's difficult to like sometimes.
I was making polite small talk with some distant relative I didn't know and she pointed to my DSD, not realising she was anything to do with me, and referred to her as 'that bad mannered little girl' 'impolite' and 'wild'.
It really pulled me up to see DSD through this stranger's eyes. I was so embarrassed I just mumbled something about being her step mum and must make more of an effort with her or something. I just wanted to get away from the conversation really.
After that I was a bit more vigilant about DSD's behaviour compared to the other kids of similar age that were there and DSD did stand out a bit as being rude and bossy. By the end of the day none of the other kids wanted to play with her. And when we came to say goodbye she was so rude in front of our host. Wouldn't say thank you, just walked off and said 'bye' with her back to everyone and gave a dismissive hand wave. I was mortified.
I haven't mentioned what this lady said to DP yet though. Would you? How would you put it?
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madonnawhore · 10/06/2013 17:12
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