so my DSD is nearly 21. was with her father from her age 13 ish to 19ish. We're generally on good terms although we have very different views on life and we havent been as close as I'd have liked. she's also been very detatched with my two (her half siblings).
she has had a very terrible relationship with my ex, her DF and we have talked through it a great deal. plus since we split we've had some good discussions, she understands the situation between her DF and me more than anyone, knowing him so well and having watched him behave the same with lots of previous girlfriends.
BUT probably half of the times we're supposed to meet, she just doesnt show- alarm, phone issues etc. today she was meant to come round but never turned up. very annoying because i put off other plans and ended up just stuck at home.
I dont know if she's being thoughtless or if something else going on. Wondering how to react. Last time she did this I sent a messages saying that it is annoying because i have other plans and she apologised. Tbh it's not like she's a teenager anymore, she's an adult, though still going through some bad things I think with her father.
Also she NEVER buys presents for me or the babies? really annoys me!
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extremely flakey DSD, what to do?
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Ithinkineedtogrowapair · 24/02/2013 21:30
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