Has anyone got a bit of advice for us? Dss, 12, has been saying for a while now he'd love to live 50:50 at our place, instead of eow, plus one midweek overnight. I have a ds of similar age, we all get along fine, and although dh and I do not want to rock the boat with VERY difficult mum, we also want to support dss with his wish! Dh and I are actually going to couples counseling to learn how to cope better as a team with the baggage thrown at us by ex. Have good relations with own ex and his dw, all reasonable and caring people. Sounds a bit cowardly to call dh's ex a bully, but she is... What could be a good approach here so as not to appear confrontational? She is a control freak and basically very money oriented, of course she loves her ds and we don't want to take him away from her but seriously understand dss wanting a bit of breathing space. Grateful for all replies, thx.
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