I've name changed for this but I am very much a regular poster. (I don't know why we write that at the beginning, as if it makes any difference)!
I have a DSS who has just turned 10. He lives with his mother in a small flat in a town about 50 miles away from us. We have him every other weekend and holidays (i have 2 DSs as well, one of whom is his half brother) and he is generally a happy and well behaved boy.
His mother works in a supermarket. She works shifts and most often does an early shift so she can collect her son from school at 3.30. But it means she leaves the flat at 6.30am, leaving him to get himself up, breakfast, dressed and walk to school (over 2 miles). He's capable of doing this but when he told my DH he was miserable and said he hates it and feels a bit scared and lonely.
I just wanted to ask really, is this OK? Is it even legal? This isn't about DHsX, she does her best, nor about point scoring etc, I just feel sad for DSS and wonder if we should say anything. DHsX does not speak to us and is very very hostile, so saying something would cause a big row I am sure
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GlassTrees · 31/12/2012 08:20
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