Hi, the question of double standards in a stepfamily is likely quite common, and perhaps someone could offer me some advice on a recent development. We moved house to accommodate visits by dsc and now live very close to ds's (14) school. This means he can now invite friends round and is able to visit friends more often too. Dh gives me the feeling though that it is not ok to have kids over regularly, I tend to side with him if I feel that my ds has not cleared up after the visit, where they also cook together. But after a while I feel I'm being too harsh on my son, especially as dh treats his kids like demigods where the best is never good enough. Help! I know it does not sound too dramatic but it is causing me palpitations with the constant pleasing of everybody...
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