Have been with DP for 5 yrs lived together for 18m have DS living with us; DSD 2/3 days a week. My DS is typical 11yr old but is a good boy. My DP is, recently finding fault with most things he does, and there is a constant barrage of nit picking arguments which are creating atmosphere in house...most of time I play devils advocate and judge/jury, but DP can be such a grumpy arse at times, I just ignore it, tell my DS to just calm down etc. it's mainly around time spent on computer, which is monitored and restricted. When DSD here she watches tv constantly and is on BBM to friends, DP never bats eyelid- suspect doesn't want her to be upset the short time she is with us..... Not good for relationship with DP and DS as DS sees it as her always being goody two shoes. It's all so obvious to me but my DP doesn't see it and constantly berates DS thus driving wedge between them and its starting to affect our relationship as I naturally want to stick up for him... Any thoughts / other opinions gratefully received !
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