Hi I am fairly new to all this, so any advice is very welcome.
My DP and I don't live together but spend a lot of time together. I have my DD's (4 and 6) full time, apart from every other weekend. He has his DD (7) every weekend.
My oldest DD and his DD are both lovely on their own, but don't get on when all of us are together.
His DD is not used to sharing him, especially not with another young girl of a similar age to herself, so obviously jealousy is an issue. She clearly feels very insecure and needs reassurance from him, but he feels that it is important to treat all 3 girls the same when we are all together. Both his DD and my eldest DD can be very emotional and highly strung and the drama when they are together is something else!! Arguing, stropping, screaming, sulking, huffing, crying, telling tales etc, pretty much constantly UNLESS they think we are unavailable or out of earshot etc.
How do we balance fairness, while also reassuring the DC's and managing their jealousy?
I've just spent the weekend with DP and his DD, had a brilliant time, equally my DC's love DP when he comes over during the week by himself.
Really struggling, so, like I said, any advice very welcome.
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My DD's, his DD - great when apart, terrible together, any advice?
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SorryMyLollipop · 23/09/2012 17:01
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