Hi,
Dh and I have dsd who's 9 for 3 nights a week she's with her GPs 1 night and her mum 3 nights. The relationship between dh and ex is amicable though I rarely see or speak to her.
Dh currently pays £70 a week to his ex, they have an arrangement between them however, as we have her half of the time and we are clothing her when she is with us which gets taken back to her mums and she re packs her bag to come back to us with none of the nice stuff we have bought (oh well)
we pay half of school uniform, supplies, trips, swimming lessons, drama and tennis and other payments for holidays etc.
At the end of the month when all our payments have left the account we are left with very little to enjoy ourselves with. I am certainly not suggesting sd goes without but I do think he is paying a little too much.
We have talked about this and he says he too feels it's a little much and it does over stretch us a bit. His ex works also and somehow manages to have 2 holidays a year. We don't go on holiday we've had 1 in 6 years due to the financial side. So do you think it's wrong to perhaps reduce her payments? What does child support cover?
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littlerayofsomething · 13/09/2012 18:21
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