I have a 4 year old DS and 2 DSS - 7yrs and 4yrs. When DH has kids his ex wife constantly rings, constantly texts (the 7 year old has his own phone!!) and we can never get a moments peace. She constantly undermines me and turns DSS's against me, every other sentence is "mum said I don't have to listen to you" always excluded from nursery/school letters/diarys ect even though her new partner is 1st on the list for all of these things. Starting to really get me down and drive us crazy, the only arguments we have are over her and DSS's. Every family event/weekend is ruined by her. She's a TA so gets 13 weeks off per year, however thinks its acceptable that DH should use all 20 days holiday to look after his kids during the holidays, even though she claims tax credits and childcare element to pay for childminder.
Any tips/hinters to calm down the crazy? It's driving me up the wall and DH's answer to it all is 'i'll speak to her' which either never happens or goes in one ear and out the other!!
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Clingy mother driving us crazy!!
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laudymissclaudy · 01/08/2012 22:01
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