Me again. With yet another problem!!!
DP's bible contract states that he has his dc from for the August bank holiday weekend. He will have had them for 2 weeks in August as well, so they literally go home for a few days then he has them back for the long weekend.
Usually this is fine. This year my DC are away with their Dad for that weekend so I will be child free which again is usually not a problem.
We got an invitation this morning to a close friends wedding in Portugal on the BH weekend. It is a once in a lifetime event - I would love to go but don't want to go by myself so I asked him to change the weekend or even miss seeing them just for once.
Oh NO. Can't possibly. He won't even ask his ex.
His solution is to have the dc anyway, drive them to his parents and then we go to the wedding and he picks them up from his parents and drops them home as usual! His parents live a 4 hour drive away from our house.
Is this madness or what? His ex will (understandably) hit the roof when she finds out that he has dumped them on his parents to bugger off abroad with me. His DC will be confused and upset that they are not having a weekend with him as expected. He will literally spring it on them in the car so they can't tell their Mum the plans beforehand
Am I being selfish? I have never asked him to change/cancel a weekend with them.
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Kaluki · 27/07/2012 11:15
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