Just need to vent a little.
18yo dss came to live with us 6 weeks ago. I was (and am) delighted that after 17 years dp finally gets to be the resident parent even if it is at the point that dss is officially an adult.
But while dss is a lovely boy (man?) it has been a massive adjustment for me. Whilr dp and ds(8yo) have taken it in their stride I have had issues.
18 year olds hygiene is much to be desired and have already nudged dp to have a talk and eventually had to have the embarrasing talk with him myself.
Having to close doors while changing, lock toilet doors and generally no naked walks through the house to get the soap, dye my hair or entice my dp.
And don't even mention the lack of privacy with regards to having sex.
I really do enjoy the fact that he is with us and we are able to help him along with his career, something his mother dosen't seem to have time for (a whole other thread) and that his father,brother ( and for that fact me) are closer to him than we ever have been.
But wow what a change in the way I live my life in my own home.
Thanks for allowing me this rant :)
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voddiekeepsmesane · 15/07/2012 19:53
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