DP and I each have kids - aged 8-15 (No joint kids). We're just in the process of moving in together and are making plans for holidays at the moment :) We're both agreed we want to do a main holiday with all the kids each summer, and a week or a couple of weekends with just the two of us.
But I'm also wondering about taking my two off for a weekend sometimes, or possibly a longer holiday - either with or without DP, but definitely without his DCs. The reason is mainly that my kids are really enthusiastic about holidays. They're an exciting treat. Whereas his kids go to private schools where they get school trips abroad each year, and their mum also takes them away quite a lot. Two of them are a teenage too, so holiday plans are sometimes met with moans and grumbles, which really makes me cross I feel they're spoilt and don't know how lucky they are, and their school trips should be given to other children who've never had a chance to go abroad (I know pleanty)!
What do other families do? Do you all go away together? or do you have some holidays just with your own children? Or leave your DP to go away just with his? How do you prevent any jelousy if you don't take them all?
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purpleroses · 28/06/2012 22:07
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