DH and I had a bit of a chat last night as we saw DSD yesterday and we were talking about how happy she seemed. I plucked up the courage to ask him if he was angry with me about the decision I thought we had made. He told me he was angry at the time when I told him to chose. I honestly and truthfully cannot remember giving him any ultimatum the way that he remembers it. I remember putting my points across and saying that if she were to come to live with us I could see it causing problems, outlining what I could see happening and saying it could end up being the end of us. He never tried to persuade me otherwise and said last night that was because he made a decision and lived with it. He can'[t understand why I'm 'trawling over things again and again' (his words). I keep talking to him about it because I need to understand how he is feeling about things. I can't do what he wants if I don't know what that is.
Sorry just needed to rant.
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After a chat last night I feel even worse.
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NewYearsDaysie · 21/05/2012 16:38
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