Bit of background: DH does over 50 7hr round trips a year so that he can see DSS after his ex moved DSS to the other end of the country (no apparent reason other than to restrict contact). A lot of this is so DH can bring DSS to our home to spend time with us and the other DC who live with us - DSS seems to really value this time at his other home.
Anyway, I've just realised that DH is scheduled to do one of these trips (returning DSS to his mum) on DS's birthday. It's sad that DSS will have to leave in the early afternoon, but inevitable. However, DH could get a DGP or our regular babysitter to accompany DSS on the journey (has only done this in emergencies in the past). Would it be selfish to ask him to do this so that DS has his dad there for his whole birthday? Obviously it would mean DSS missing out on 3 hours one-on-one time with his dad, which is very important to him.
So as not to dripfeed, I will also be due to have another baby 10 days after this travel so would really rather DH passed on all travel that weekend. I have a history of quick labours and would be gutted if he missed the birth of this baby.
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Imanonperson · 03/05/2012 10:48
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