My Dp has 4 kids that stay with us every other weekend. They are being brought up primarily by their mother who doesn't seem to have any standards and basically lets the kids rule the roost. I have no children of my own and my my own admission am not very tolerant. I would like to help the children learn some basic manners, ps and qs, they can't even use a knife and fork! I admit my upbringing was quite strict but it did me no harm. DP is quite disneyish and says I should chill out and let them be. I find this hard as knowing where they live, who their mother is etc... they could very easily turn out to be proper little asbos. How can I help them 2 days out of 14 if my Dp won't back me up? If you think I am being unreasonable, how do you chill out about things that seriously compromise your own standards? People who already have kids seem to be more tolerant... help as I get very stressed every time the kids come to stay...
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NatashaBee ·
29/04/2012 18:14
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