wasn't quite sure how to word my op, and hope this is the right place to post it
i have a ds (nearly 6) from a previous relationship, and a DD (nearly 3) with new (ish) DH.
MIL (dh's mum) definitely treats them differently. its just her general attitude towards them, she has an air of indifference to DS and is all over DD. she often babysits for DD but wouldn't ever babysit DS as well. also at christmas, she buys for them both (which is nice she does that) but she spends LOADS on dd and hardly anything on DS :( they are so young at the moment that they probably don't notice or care. but i worry that as they get older they will. i am not being materialistic, if anything i would rather her spend a small amount on both of them as long as its equal.
the ironic thing is my exMIL loves dd like her own, treats them the same and dd calls her "nanna".
if anyone here is in similar circumstances it would be great if you could share your experiences.
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if you have DC from a prev relationship, do your in-laws treat those dc differently?
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MistyMountainHop · 22/03/2012 10:46
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