My 18 y/0 DSD moved out just after Xmas and in with PILs.
Something's got into her head over the last week and she wants nothing more to do with me cause she heard from a random person that I might have said 'I want someone to give me a baby' and then got with her dad, and also cause I put on FB on Friday that it was the first time since DS was born (15 months ago) that we'd had no kids in the house: that's translated to her that I'm having a go at her saying she never gave me and DH time together (she didn't, we got married in August and we had DS at my parents for the night and asked DSD if she could stay at her bfs for the night, he ended up staying at ours that night!!)
Her initial reason for moving out was that she didn't like being nagged for not doing housework, even though we got so desperate for her help we offered to pay her. So she moved out.
She's now saying that she moved out cause I've changed her dad into a horrible person, I made the house so horrible she had to move out.
In my defence I think she's looking to blame someone else, she asked me to adopt her just before she turned 18, I couldn't cause of her age, so we spent a long time finding a symbol that meant mother and daughter and we paid for her to get it tattooed, and I would get the same when we could afford it. She calls me mum etc etc
I'm not particularly looking for advice I'm just feeling sorry for myself as she's saying such horrid hurtful things. I understand her blaming me but there's not need in my eyes to be trying to drag me down!!
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MischeviousMum · 25/01/2012 17:50
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