This thread is for me to get off my chest things that niggle me but I cannot say during the weekend.
I care for them, I have for 13 years, I have done everything for them that a mother would, but they are not mine, not my flesh and blood therefore I cannot ignore some of the irritating, thoughtless and selfish things they do. But I cannot speak of these things because they are not mine.
Feel free to join me, step-parents, perhaps it will help you too.
I'll start..
I don't want to listen to them playing the piano for hours on end, - no it doesn't sound good, no it doesn't sound like the opening cords of that Snow Patrol one.
I don't expect anyone to have to prompt them to say thank you for the meals I prepare.
It bothers me that they wake my young children when they come in late.
It bothers me that they sleep in until midday, then wander around the house in bare feet with dirty toenails, and ignore my children.
I don't want to be told by teenagers how to parent my own children - yes I DO read with them everyday thank you for suggesting it, and no they will not be getting an X-Box.
I would like just once for someone to empty or load the dishwasher.
I do not want my house to smell like damp dogs wearing Hugo Boss aftershave.
I do not ever want to find a wank sock again, ever.
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W0rmy · 23/01/2012 12:55
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