My dh and I recently had a short break together. First holiday, as such, in 5 years. Whilst we were away, his 17yr old daughter, who stays with us every other weekend and one day in the week ( and lives with mum 5 mins away) came over and invited a number of friends.
Nothing wrong in that. Apparently, they all had rather a lot to drink and stayed over. What annoyed me was, she didn't ask us if this was ok, she allowed someone to use our (master bedroom) bed. And, she never mentioned it the day we returned when we saw her. I could tell that something was odd about the bed as it had been stripped and changed before we left on our break. Also, I found hair grips in the bed.
Sd never apologised; DH spoke to her about it but she just kind of shrugged and walked off.
We have 4 bedrooms, they could have used any of them EXCEPT OURS. She didn't even change the sheets....just didn't mention it and thought we'd not notice so, that would make it Ok.
Dh and I both feel that she uses our home to do stuff her mum wont tolerate. Her mum woulnt let her have a party at their house recently and so we had it at our home. When she is with us, staying, she's always out and about which I know is normal for her age but then, when we weren't here, she had a houseful and abused the situation, I feel. The usual detritus of people having used your home was in evidence too.... Empty cans, dirty glasses etc. But, it's the use of our bed that's upset me.
And no apology....she just looked pissed off that we'd noticed.
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SallyBowles · 19/08/2011 08:55
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