I've posted here before about our situation with CSA payments - we pay just under £800 a month for youngest SS (17) - court order (pre CSA) was to end payments at 17 but CSA will not take that original agreement into account and so we have been hit with extra payments we were not expecting. We are considering moving house to give us a bit of leeway on a monthly basis. SS in not turning up for lessons, got failed 3 modules in January for AS's and does not want to stay at school but Mum says he has to (or she looses maintenance)
Eldest DSS (20) was forced out of Mum's house when maintenance for him stopped - he has been working at a crappy job and has a flat share - been really responsible paying bills and budgeting but has now realised he needs to do something with his life - and has applied for and been offered a uni place. We are thrilled for him and would love to do something to help him financially - but it is very difficult with money going out for SS2.
How much would you be prepared to sacrifice for your SC - what is reasonable? Would you give up your car / nights out / holiday?
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CSA payments stopping us helping elder DSS
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WkdSM · 10/06/2011 09:50
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