My DSS (14 nearly 15) confessed to his sister (13) that he doesn't like me, never has and is planning to move out to live with his friend so he doesn't have to make his dad choose between us.
I cant help feeling that this is attention seeking rubbish.
Yes, we clash hurrendously sometimes.
He moved into our house just over a year ago after a big fall out with his mom, and I have continued in the same vein discipline and level of expectation as his mom.
I just don't know what to do...I try to talk to him, we watch a few tv programmes together and I know he's a teenager and I am the easiest focus for his anger/resentment/general teenager moodiness, but I am at a loss as what to do.
My feeling is that if he really disliked me, he would have said something to his dad (my DF...six months to go before the big day!) already and he hasn't.
When DF and SS are together and I am there, SS agrees with everything DF says and has no opinion of his own, and a little teasing turns into SS ganging up on me with his dad...taking it too far (DF intends it to be teasing - SS takes it too far)
I love this boy. He is lazy and uncooperative and an idiot sometimes but I love him. When we get on, it's great - we laugh and joke and he's a great boy. Mostly I am so worried about him and his attitude toward me. I am unsure what his intentions are and what he thinks he is going to acheive. I am so upset and confused by him at the moment.
I have asked to talk to him tonight, and he has said no.
Sorry it's a long one, but I am so hurt and lost by his actions. He's told me that I am not part of this family and that I never will be...
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My DSS HATES me
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finnbarr · 10/05/2011 10:07
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